It's another New Year and the question I am inspired to ask you is,

"Have you already resigned yourself to living your life the same as last year or possibly the years before that? Or have you made a commitment to move forward and embrace change now... NO MATTER WHAT?"

Read more: Embrace Change.....Break the cycles of Unhealthy and Negative Habits

One of my biggest challenges in life has always been setting boundaries. Like most kids, I just wasn’t aware that I even needed to establish boundaries, which resulted in me being nothing more than a doormat. I was a tireless giver. Eventually I realized that I had to live differently or there wasn’t going to be a “me” to give.

Later, after I learned how to say “no,” I set boundaries out of a reaction to fear. This wasn’t very effective either. It turned me into a control freak. I would often mistake boundary setting with aggression or force.

Over the last few years, as I’ve come to understand fear, my struggle with the concept of boundaries continued. It continued because, to me, the idea of boundaries represented just another “reaction to fear” an implied mistrust of self and others. Don’t get me wrong. I intuitively understand the need for boundaries, but I have never really enjoyed the way boundaries are taught.

Read more: Boundaries That Make Sense

The Online Life Coach Question Of The Day And Perhaps One Of The Most Important Life Coaching Questions Ever

• Are You Really Being Honest With Yourself?
• Do you ever ask yourself if you are really being honest?

 Well I sure do. But it seems to be one of those revolving door types of questions. You go in one way and come out another. What do I mean?

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As an online life coach, many people I speak with are having relationship issues. I would like to share with you what I find to be a common relationship problem. Let me ask you…

• Have you turned a loving relationship into a trading Relationship?
• Do you feel disconnected from someone you love?
• Does your relationship feel different than it used to?
• Do you feel like you’ve tried everything but nothing you do seems to rekindle the connection you once had?

Read more: Relationships From An Online Life Coaching Perspective

In my online life coaching practice, I find a lot of people are spending a great deal of their life on a roller coaster ride from hell – riding the emotional rails of highs and lows ad nauseum.

How about you, are you stuck with a ticket for a one way ride in your hand?

At nearly every turn, are you living in reaction to your emotions instead of responding to them with loving awareness?

Read more: Getting Off The Emotional Roller Coaster With An Online Life Coach

An online life coach helps you realize your dreams and identify, clarify and realize your possibilities.

What Is An Online Life Coach?

Let me ask...

• What are you dreaming of?
• What motivates you?
• Are you accomplishing your goals?
• Are you achieving your life's dreams?
• These are the things an online life coach can help you discover and achieve. Are you ready to manifest your dreams into reality?
• Are you ready for all that life has to give you and that you deserve?

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Your Personal Online Life Coach Can Guide You Down Your Path of Possibilities!

• Are you living your dreams?
• Are you excited to get out of bed EVERYDAY?
• Have you discovered your gifts and are you sharing them with everyone you can?

Too often these questions are answered with a resounding NO!

Read more: Are You Walking Your Path?